There’s no shortage of advice out there about what women over 50 should be wearing. Most of it feels outdated, patronizing, or clearly written by someone who’s never dressed a real body in midlife…let alone tried to button jeans after a sushi lunch.
I’ve learned that as we age, our lives shift, our bodies change, and our wardrobes need to catch up. What used to be your go-to might suddenly feel too fussy, too flat, or just… vaguely irritating. That doesn’t mean your style is gone. It means your clothes need to meet you where you are…not where you were ten years (or ten pounds) ago.
These are five things I’ve embraced in my own closet lately. They’re not rules. Just gentle updates that have made getting dressed feel a little easier, a little more current, and a lot more comfortable. This post has been very popular, so I’m updating it for new readers to discover.
1. Add Texture and Pattern (They’re More Forgiving Than You Think)
Shiny, smooth fabrics tend to catch the light in all the wrong places… including ones I didn’t even know I had until I caught a glimpse under dressing room lights. That’s one reason I’ve started leaning into soft textures, especially near the face.
Textured fabrics like tweed, slub knits, matte crepe, or nubby cotton all diffuse light instead of spotlighting every fine line. And pattern plays a quiet trick of its own. Small, tone-on-tone or scattered prints soften contrast and give the eye something else to focus on, so it doesn’t land directly on wrinkles or shadows.
You don’t need to wear a head-to-toe pattern if that’s not your style, but I’ve learned a patterned scarf near my face can brighten things up without overwhelming me.
Try this: If a top looks a little off, notice the surface. Is it too shiny? Too smooth? You might not need a different cut, just a fabric with texture or pattern that flatters your features instead of fighting them.
2. Rethink Black (Especially Near Your Face)
For years, black was my go-to. It was easy, it was everywhere, and it always felt “chic”…especially when I didn’t want to overthink what I was wearing. But somewhere around my late 50s, I started to notice it wasn’t doing me any favors.
As our coloring softens with age, black can start to feel too harsh. It deepens shadows, exaggerates fine lines, and has a sneaky way of making us look more tired than we actually feel (which frankly, is rude).
This doesn’t mean you need to banish black altogether…I certainly haven’t. But I’ve become more thoughtful about how I wear it. I try to opt for navy, charcoal, or deep taupes. When I do wear black, I’ll wear it further from my face, break it up with a scarf, bold earrings, or a jacket in a better color.
Try This Mini Style Experiment:
Hold a black top and a navy or charcoal one near your face in natural light. Compare how you look. Is the black draining and overpowering you? You can learn more about intensity here.
3. Choose Comfortable Shoes (Without Giving Up Style)
Let’s be honest, most of us have spent decades in shoes that were more about looks than logic. High heels, narrow toe boxes, zero arch support…our feet didn’t stand a chance and we’re paying the price for it now.
I used to think that comfortable shoes meant giving up. Now I think the opposite: I’m not giving up anything, I’m just not willing to be in pain by lunchtime.
The good news? Comfort brands have come a long way. There are plenty of stylish options now with actual arch support, cushioning, and toe boxes that don’t require origami-level foot folding. Sleek loafers, modern sneakers, and ankle boots with low heels exist, and they’re worth seeking out. I have an entire category on comfortable footwear options here.
What I do now: I shop with a clear boundary: if they pinch, slip, or make me walk funny, they’re not coming home with me. No matter how cute they are.
Take a look at the shoes you reach for most often. If the same two pairs are always in rotation, pay attention. That’s your closet quietly telling you what actually works for your life right now.
4. Makeup Should Support You, Not Work Against You
Makeup after 50 isn’t about doing less, it’s about doing what actually works now. Our skin changes, our features soften. What once looked fresh might now feel flat, harsh, or simply… not right.
I used to wear foundation every day. Now? I lean toward tinted sunscreen or a sheer moisturizer with a hint of coverage. It smooths things out without settling into lines or making me feel overdone. Full-coverage products tend to sit on top of the skin, and I’ve found they often emphasize what I’d rather not highlight.
These days, I focus on what helps me look a little more awake: softly defined brows, a touch of soft eyeshadow, and lipstick that brings some color back into my face. I still wear blush, but I apply it a bit higher than I used to, and I go easy on powder because anything too dry seems to age me faster than time does.
If your makeup isn’t quite landing anymore, don’t scrap it all. Try just one change like a brighter lipstick, a dewier base, or a lighter hand with your brows. One small update can make everything else fall into place. You may also enjoy The Best Fall Lip Colors for Mature Skin
5. Curate Don’t Accumulate
I wish I could say I’ve stopped falling for every shiny new trend, but the truth is… I still get lured in now and then. It’s easy. A bold color, an “it” silhouette, a sale… it all whispers promise. And sometimes it works, but more often, it ends up in the donation pile or hiding in the back of my closet.
You may also enjoy 10 Common Shopping Habits That Quietly Sabotage Your Wardrobe
What I’ve learned is that chasing trends doesn’t always lead to better outfits. It usually just leads to more stuff and more confusion.
These days, I try to be more deliberate. I still enjoy knowing what’s current, but I filter it through my actual life, what I wear most. What feels good, flatters, and plays well with the rest of my closet.
Before I bring something new in, I ask:
- Does this fit the life I really live?
- Can I wear it at least three ways?
- Do I feel like myself in it?
Try this: Take a look at what you’re wearing on repeat. Those pieces are already doing the heavy lifting. Let them teach you something before you add more.
If this post resonates with you, I would love you to subscribe and join our community here.
Why This Matters
Style after 50 isn’t about reinvention, it’s about recalibration. Your life has shifted along with your body, your calendar, and maybe your tolerance for anything that digs in or rides up.
If something’s been feeling off lately, don’t assume it’s you. It’s not.
Start small. Your closet is full of clues. Sometimes all it takes is a quiet morning, a good mirror, and a little coffee-fueled honesty to realize it’s not you that’s the problem…it’s the clothes that aren’t keeping up.
Now I’m curious, ladies…what’s one thing you’ve changed in how you dress after 50?
Thanks for reading, and remember to wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!